The question that I want to ask today is that are they governed by the same underlying feeling or not. I am not talking about the actions. Actions are always definers of our personality. But the thoughts are the real definitions. In other words actions are the manifestations of our thoughts which is the true inner, hidden quality.
So, these thoughts or feelings, are they different for crush, love and obsession?
Maybe, these are all actually identical with their source being the same pounding of heart or thumping of brain. All the hormones reacting in the same way in both the scenarios. The only difference that arise is from the way it seems to the other person. That is, our actions are what provide the necessary recognition to them.
You might say, what is the difference in them or how does it matter what someone thinks till their actions do not incorporate that thought? My answer is- You are absolutely correct! It does not matter if all you want is an acquaintance with the person. But what about someone you care about. Will you be happy if that person acts like a zombie or maybe a doll? And sometimes it is not because of society or circumstances. It is just because a person has accustomed himself or herself to it.
Also, if you know the mind you rule it. And whosoever rules the mind rules the world. So won’t it be better to know what someone is thinking and doing and why is the discrepancy occurring.
Back to the original thought, what is the difference between crush, love and obsession? Are they same beings with different personalities or are they actually different?
I do not know the answer to it, yet. If anyone has please do tell me.