Sunday, March 8, 2009

Got Tagged

 

Andy is the culprit to do this to me. My love life (on which this quiz is apparently based) is too confusing to me as I do not know why they ended. Rather I should say what went wrong..Nevertheless the rules are that->

- Once tagged, u gotta answer the questions on your blog, replacing the ones you didn't like with ones you do.

- You then have to tag six other people who haven't fallen prey to this guy who tagged you. Vengence...If I might say takes away the pain to a lot of extent. You also have to mention( along with link) the name of the person who tagged you.

As said in ‘The Godfather’

“Let’s go to the mattresses”

1.If your lover betrayed you what would your reaction be?

First anger.. But if she is my lover then I will forgive her, eventually. Though I might leave her if/as she is happier with the other person.

2.What’s it that you see in an ideal partner?

I think intelligence and mental compatibility are definitely foremost important. For eg. I will never be happy with some one who do not appreciates literature. Besides that I do like a bit of tomboyish effect in girls. Rather, I should say that I like girls who are not umm.. ‘girly’. Also girls who listen more and talk less (Why? Because I talk too much [;)]).

Then comes the clichéd ‘beauty’. I will not define my terms of beauty as I do not understand them myself. Also she should have a sense of humor. As Joker said in Batman- “ Why so serious?”

And finally, she should like my eccentrics (there are lot of these in me), my madness and childishness. If she is able to do that..

“Wait a sec girl.. Just lemme find a ring..   ”

P.S.- My mum is the best gal I have ever seen and my parents the perfect couple. So anyone want to know what kind of girl I like, just see my mum. (mamma’s boy I am)

3.What, according to you, is the perfect date?

A bit of drizzling, a bit of cold. She is wearing my jacket with wet hair (long, if I might add) sticking to her body covering her cheeks a bit. Twilight with clouds helping reducing the visibility. A meadow ( I love grass) would be an ideal place. Also, solitude is compulsory.

Though my hunger would have died by now but considering it a human necessity (for her) any thing she likes (cooked by me of-course)

A full moon is something I would definitely like to see as the night comes. We talk about anything and everything that comes to mind. And the whole night (yes, it has to be whole night) is spread with kisses.

And a loooonnngggg kiss (I know its cheesy; sorry) to end the night and date.

4.How would you propose to your love?

It will not be beating about the bush as I am famous for. Somehow I can never beat about the bush when telling something direct from the heart. Maybe it will be blunt and on your face style but then if it is my ideal mate (Q 2.) she will love this eccentricity of mine. One thing is almost certain though, I will not be subtle. I will shout my LOVE and not accept it to her meekly. I just can not contain my happiness in me. My proposal will be loud and lavish. 

5.Will you fall in love with your best friend?

Possible. But it might not work as best friend knows your madness but might not necessary like or understand them.

6.Which is more blessed: loving someone or being loved by someone?

Loving someone.. through and through. It is fulfilling and gives life a meaning. If I love someone unconditionally then I will be happier than being loved by hundred girls (though I won’t mind it either [;)])

7.How long do you intend to wait for someone you love?

Patience is not one of my qualities but love is a very strong emotion. For me Love means her happiness. I confess my love to her, she asks me to wait, I’ll wait.. as long as she likes. She says she is not interested in me as I am, I’ll change myself (at least, I’ll try). If I fail then I’ll move ahead (Not forgetting her-that I can not).

8.If the person you secretly like is attached, what will you do?

OK… some one has made this questionnaire very cleverly.. As I said her happiness is top priority. Though I believe that- “Keeda karo to Keeda hoga”. Sorry, no other way to explain this. So I’ll definitely tell her about my feelings. Who knows she might also have had feelings for me. I do not like ‘What ifs?’ and will definitely give her.. err.. options as I might say this.. If she is happy with that other guy (hmmphh..) then I’ll will move on. I believe that one can fall in love again.

9.What do you think are the foundation stones of a good relationship?

To understand the rational part and love the irrational part of your mate.
Most relationship go wrong because we love the rational part and try to figure out (& sometimes correct) the irrational part.

What’s irrational is what makes an individual unique and most often can not be changed so should never be tried. Its not only fruitless but destroys the relationship. It should only be loved, completely.

10.What according to you is the most beautiful thing about relationships or marriage?

Sharing, for me.. I am a thinker and I mean that seriously. I think so much that I do not have a large memory and sometimes I can not differentiate between what I thought and what actually happened (for memories 5 yrs back or more). So I need to tell these things to some one. Who better than her?

I know it sounds selfish and I will not deny that. But I do not think it is as bad as it sounds. I am a good listener too.

11.Where do you see yourself 10 years from now?

An industrialist, rich, hopefully married (and not divorced), definitely with kids. If I am not married I’ll adopt. And half-way my bucket list.

12. What’s your fear?

Currently, none that I know of. When I get any fear my first instinct is to over-power it. Nevertheless, the most perennial is losing the people I care about (including my Dog) Though being a stoic I know I will overcome the pain if something actually happens. But the constant sense of uncertainty definitely has its thrills.

13.What kind of person do you think the person who tagged you is?

Andy or Apoorv(a) as he is known to teachers is umm.. err..

lost the string of thoughts. let me start over again..

Andy thinks.. A trait rarely observed. Most people are so busy being ostrich that they forget that they have a mind of their own. He reads, comprehends, understands, analyse and write. He boosts your confidence if you lack it. Never looses hope on you; even if you have lost it yourself.

His singular bad quality is that he under-estimates himself to gigantic proportions. Hopefully he will understand his true value (not potential-he knows that) someday.

14.Would you rather be single and rich or married and poor?

Tough one. Really tough one for me. I like my gadgets and all too much. Still, the charm of a relationship is too much. What use is the money if there is no one to spend it??[;)]

15.If you fall in love with two people simultaneously who will you pick?

Gee.. that’s a good one. Honestly, here I will be selfish and analytical. Like Ross’ list in FRIENDS.

16.Would you give all in a relationship?

120% might be closer. How can you not give it everything you have.. and more.

17.Would you forgive and forget someone no matter how horrible a thing he has done?

Killing me doesn’t count I hope and so does my family. No, I can not. There will always be a limit to where I will forgive. I might still love her but forgiving again.. is not one of my better properties. It will take me time to heal if the wound is too deep.

18.Do you prefer being single or in a relationship?

In a relationship.

19.Your all time favourite song. Only ONE. And why?

Only one is not enough for me.. its not fair..

[sobbing.. booh..bah..]

Alright better. The song will be “Na Sahi” from “Socha Na Tha”

-Ek ped hamne pyar ka …-

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Time for the hunted to become a hunter.

I tag Aamir, Dhruv, Nishant, Pawan, Mohit, and Umar.

7 comments:

Priyanka Yadav said...

Whoa!! That's a nice long one. Must have taken alot of thinking. I'm glad no one tagged me to do this :P

Kunal said...

don't worry..
i have tagged Dhruv. he will tag you.
I'll ask him to do so. [;)][:P]
It definitely took me a lot of time and a lot of thinking. But it was a nice break from all directionless thinking I usually do.

Sophie Broflovski said...

Oh Phaak!
I hope he doesn't tag me. You don't come up with wicked ideas like that. *Glares*
I got a Chem exam tomorrow and I've to name complexes-study their structures-draw their isomers now and not write blogposts about my lovelife which stinks worse than "whats-that-chemical-with-rotten-egg-smell?" (Read H2S)!

P.S. *has a change of mind*
But I think it'll be fun doing it. Maybe I'll write it if I'm tagged. *sigh* Chemistry sucks anyway.

andy said...

His singular bad quality is that he under-estimates himself to gigantic proportions. Hopefully he will understand his true value (not potential-he knows that) someday.

For the las tym dude!!! i don't :((
mummmaaaaaaaaa!!!!

Kunal said...

@ Andy
Yes you do...
Or might be you don't.. You just think others are better than you..
lol ;)
Anyways great to be friends with you..
*tears* *sobbing*
sorry for the emotional dialogue..

Bnidh said...

Nice buddy .....

Their are certain things that are in your blog that will be appreciated by many but understood by none ....

the reason is simple that they have not gone through that condition or i must say transition that is required to understand that...

And their are certain points where i would not follow you ma Friend (personal reason, its not that i disagree with your point...) My proposal will NOT be loud. but one thing is for sure it would be UNFORGETABLE...



what i found in Modern life many people don't understand the meaning of true love ..... they believe that everything is flirt
... But i believe only unconditional love is true love and other are real flirt....


Do you agree buddy....

Kunal said...

@Binidh
I don't think that other love is not love. But unconditional love means you love a person even if the person is with some other person. But if you think that you can keep her happier then??
Will you tell her or not? Mind you this will affect her present relationship.